Criticize is to judge or discuss the merits and faults of anything. It is the act of passing judgment as to either the merits faultfinding in anything. It can be said or passed around in words during discussion, comments, articles, and essays or even in television shows and drams.
Criticism is not welcomed in employment or at work. Nobody likes to be criticizing or be put down to in front of others. Losing pride ego and face is what Asians detest most, thus people can only hide the truth from their friends, relatives, even family members for wanting to hear words pleasant to their ears only.
Refusal to accept criticism is a sign of failure and the root of the problem that poor people hold and embrace tightly in their heart. People hang around people to feel happy and to encourage one another, but what if the company, band of friends you’re hanging around wish otherwise, reluctance to see you improve and surpass them leaving you behind. It is their reluctance to let go and see you succeed that cause friends and company to be the deciding factor in your result.
At work, if you’re new, speaking against a superior, you will get blacklisted and people will start to find faults with everything and anything that you do.
At home, if you’re young, speaking against an elder or senior, even if you’re right, they think that you’re always wrong because you are younger than them that kind of mentality.
If you want to succeed, hang and mix around with people who will be happy and willing to extend their helping hand. That is why successful people hang around with successful people; you don’t see successful people hanging around with failures who aren’t willing to improve themselves.
Example, look at the way crabs are being kept in supermarkets, those selling normal black colour crabs beside them selling Japanese crab etc. Why some crabs do is trapped in a cage while some are left in a tank without a lid to prevent them from escaping.
The next time you see both kinds of crabs side by side, ask the seller why the difference in handling and selling them, once you hear it yourself or look long enough observing those crabs. You will understand why the difference in treatment when both species of crabs tries to escape, and see how they react. (I heard this from my senior last time when I was in the previous employment)
If you want to succeed, hang around with people who are happy to be asked questions, receive feedbacks even if it’s a nasty comment or remarks etc. While it is not a pleasant experience, but with every new complaint or feedback you can improve faster and better than people who are only accepting the good and rejecting the bad thus there’s no room for improvements.
With lots of criticism, will increase the room for improvements thus there are companies, business who are able to position and brand themselves as the luxury top tail brand in the market. Looking and learning from mistakes of others where they refuse to listen is a key factor which determines the success or downfall of anything.
Are you willing to accept and receive criticism with happiness or are you going to deny them? Its your choice and what future you want to put yourself in.
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