There’s this undisputed truth about entrepreneurs which I realized long ago but without the reminder of a television show, it will not probably surface in my thoughts any where near this few months.
There’s this saying, 成功男人背后有一个女人。 Which means “Behind every successful man lies a woman” But what many don’t know is that the qualities of the lady and the success of a man.
Successful man to be will not be a good lover; neither will they be able to spend a lot of time like everybody to accompany their companion. That’s why many ladies will leave a entrepreneur-to-be in search of somebody who can give them the love and attention as compared to the devotion that an entrepreneur gives to his own business ideas and work processes.
The successful formula behind every true entrepreneurs are that they are rational, logical and think of the proper ROI, profit and loss statement etc even in a relationship which is why entrepreneurs-to-be will never fail to have a long period of being single.
The logic behind that supports my statement is very reasonable. If one self wants to succeed, he/she must be able to minimize all potential unnecessary expenses to work on increasing profits, thus if in the event any person who will hinder them will not be taken into serious consideration nor be treated in favor. Just look around all the super rich people in the Forbes Magazine, do you see any one of them associate themselves with the poor people who spend money like nobody business? No they don’t, it’s not inside their dictionary from the start they decide to take on the path of success.
Reason behind getting a woman who will stay by their side is simple, they have pass the entrepreneur’s personal test of a wife candidate to be thrifty at least until they succeed or if they can hide their true self until the other half earn big bucks. What an entrepreneur seeks in a family, is a successful equation and thus they will choose to remain single till they find the right one and instead work on their own success first.
Why would they choose to give up pleasure and fun in the process of seeking success, thinking is simple, it’s even taught in primary schools but not many took much attention to it. 先苦后甜。To be able to make it big and earn big bucks thus they can prevent a lot of potential problems which will surface in the future. Entrepreneurs are people who think forward and solve problems, not creating them.
Why I say it, it’s about making sure and ensuring that all financial related issues have being solved first before worrying about marriage. Because in a courtship, it ultimately also boils down money, it’s required to pay for the meals, transportation in the event of watching late-night movies, picking up their partner while raining (taxi) and during shopping seasons. All of which requires nothing more than money, devotion and attention.
Without money as a concern than only will the courtship be a positive one, where there will be many beautiful memories left behind rather than an average courtship among average-joe where money and where to live in the event of family argument surface. Without money problem, than can the guy put more attention into the lady, which is why most of the ladies if not all ladies prefer to hook up with successful people.
Having said my point, if you’re reading this now, and you’re still single, the next time you (if you’re a lady) took notice of a single guy, pay more attention to his thoughts and call-to-action plans. Find out more about the person and do some homework, who knows you might pick up a golden-goose in the making.
More will be shed about entrepreneurs, with time and patience. Feel free to voice your comments.
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