Reluctance is an unwillingness feeling and showing resistance to something that has being proposed, disinclination.

It is a behavior that is negative and should never be embraced and accepted. It is good to learning how to say No, but learn to say No only when the situation calls for it instead of saying No everything even if people want to lend a helping hand, but it takes both the giver and receiver to stretch out both their hands before the hands can hold together before any help can be done in the first place.

Resistance is both positive and negative different actions and decisions are made.

People who showed the most resistance to change belongs to the poor. They only want to receive but they don’t even make an effort to stretch out their hand doing half of the effort. Only expecting help from people who will go the extra mile stretching fully to feed the poor without themselves doing anything.

It is only when you give, than you receive. If you receive and don’t give, you will not grow or get any happier as what you receive is only temporary, and if you do nothing, the reality will set back in again. Look at the people living in one-room flat people, some poor souls living there only receive help and lots of assistance from people once a year when the election or votes for town council is round the corner, and the volunteers never fail to help clean up the homes of people living in one-room flat.

Every year, help is given, they do nothing to change their situation, which is why the next year, and their home will become messy again if it goes without maintenance because they are not changing their habits or thinking thus junk pile up easily.

People who show the least resistance will also suffer because they give too much, but didn’t receive anything in return. Allowing people to take benefits from them without returning anything, credit at work gets stolen, workload of other colleagues become the person who gives and don’t expect returns. It doesn’t pay to be too kind, but it pays to be generous and make sure you know at least how to do a balance sheet, getting a fair deal.

Reluctance is resistance but only when you show and do it right, than will you succeed. All entrepreneurs are successful because they understand and embrace reluctance to give up and increasing their resistance to non-constructive comments and feedbacks that are not helpful, only accepting constructive feedbacks that will help them to succeed and that’s why entrepreneurs are respected more than a boss who just pay the money and become a boss without earning the rights to be respected but they buy the right to be respected which is only temporary.

Help is given to only deserving people.

“We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.” – Donald J.Trump

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